Yeah as the other poster said it seems that you and you alone have a problem that must be worked out imo
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No, porn is a good thing, as you correctly mentioned we have a biological need of sex and if this beast is not fed it starts to cloud mind and it becomes really troublesome, it is getting hard to interact with females in life as you start to see them as possible sexual partners and can't work with them, study with them etc as they distract you just with their presence and you have no choice , there is no switch off button for lust. So porn is a godsend, it allows to feed your instincts, calm your mind, after good strong masturbations you perceive females normally, nothing clouds your mind. And after that you can talk to females better and more productively, see their personalities and thus you can find your right relationship partner easier as you stop seeing females as boobs+ass , you see them as persons with personality with all pros and cons. Before confessing love to a girl, masturbate twice, your opinion may change.
Oh I am not talking about me. I have no problems with porn. I think it's wonderful and it's very useful to me since I never want to get married! I am rich, retired before I was even 30 and I am currently enjoying my life to the fullest. But, have you ever spoken to people who are struggling with this? Go to reddit and other such forums. People are literally dying because of porn, they can't help themselves when it comes to tipping webcam girls, they are watching porn when they shouldn't, causing financial ruin etc. The problem is people like you, me and other people commenting on this post can watch porn without a problem. But everybody can't and those are the ones facing the most damage in society. The day I feel I can't handle porn or I stop getting erections with real women because of porn is the day I am gonna cut back on porn. It's good if you can handle it but bad if you can't. Cheers!
I agree, it's called post nut clarity and it helps in making the right choice when you're simping hard for a woman.
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I mean, there are some problems with that statement overall. especially the part about it getting hard to interact/work/study with females, which i can assure you is total BS for the majority of people. If just being around a woman is enough to distract you, you have deeper rooted issues my dude.
That said, that final sentence, "Before confessing love to a girl, masturbate twice, your opinion may change." <- this is fucking solid life advice right here. And god i wish i'd thought of that years ago
Yeah postnut clarity and pre-nups are a life saver. NOT SIMPING for any women is another life saver.
The people you're talking about in point number 1: alot of these men are like that. They are the ones who can't say no to a pretty woman, would shower her with trips, gifts & money even if they don't have money for food. If these donkeys do end up getting married, they find out the girl was never in love with them in the first place and if she was: she had moved on a long time back & is fucking other dudes.
I believe DNA tests need to be made mandatory like in Jamaica after tests are increasingly proving these men who married these women are not the actual fathers but the father is a dude for whom the mom was just a slut. It's the simping men who have to pay child support for that bastard child as per law so it's really a double whammy. It's sad that these men are not taught to respect themselves better.
I will illustrate with an example: I remember when I broke up with a 100/10 girl, alot of these men literally came upto me in SHOCK AND AWE asking how can I break up with someone like her? How can I even say no and walk away & why would I do something like that to her? While these men didn't even have the courage to talk to her. (she was the only one I ever fell in love with, so she was really a 100 for me, 8-10 out of 10 for normal people and -100 out of 10 when u get to know how rotten & narcissistic she was inside & how much of a lier she was)
Now walking away from the only person you love is not easy, despite all these red flags because your biology works against that when it's real love. But I was still able to think rationally about her, my life & what I want & need. Her and these men on the other hand? They were all going crazy. She played mind games after that for 3 years, took every opportunity she had to disrespect me in front of other men and created a living hell in my life but never once apologised about what she was doing which shows the kind of person she is. She did want to get back together all that time but I wasn't going to make the same mistake twice. If she was a dude and did these things, I would've killed her for sure. But we are taught not to attack women and I respected that and put up with all the shit at that time.
I knew she was like this and that's why I decided to break up before these things even happened. Turns out I was right & it would've been a lot worse had I married and then broke it up with her. Luckily things turned out just right, I'm retired before I hit 30 & she can do whatever she wants.
The point: men simp hard but so do women. Stay away from both because they don't know their self-worth and can't differentiate between what is right or wrong when the going gets hard. They end up following instincts and their emotions which ends badly for themselves.
Agreed, it is not normal , yes most likely issues. If I see a girl that I like than I feel distraction. This applies only to girls that I like and it does not happen very often I am indifferent to some girls and I am fine near them , they may be really attractive but I just don't feel anything for some reason, but if somehow a girl attracts me - I will be in chaos . Or maybe I am just lonely, when I had girlfriends i concentrated my attention on them and I was fine, but currently I don't have one and I guess my nature demands me to get a girfriend so I feel what i feel. I wish there was a switch off button to shut down this desire so I can just do my business, but there isn't, so I have to be aware that I may fall for some girl and oh damn here we go again.
This is my perspective as someone who's been hearing about OnlyFans on news, memes, Reddit posts and podcasts for years but has never actually joined it and only just found out this forum. TLDR at the bottom.
I somehow accidentally ended up here in when I was looking into how to bypass News Websites paywalls. I ended up on a Reddit thread about how to bypass OnlyFans paywall and this forum was recommended.
I've never joined OnlyFans mostly because whenever you find a girl that you think is attractive and you go to her OnlyFans, you cannot really see anything, not without creating an account and giving them your credit card, at least. There's no preview, no teaser, no trailer, nothing, it's all locked posts that you have to subscribe to to unlock. You're supposed to pay first, decide later.
That's a very anti-consumer behavior. It puts all the power in the hands of the content creator. And this also applies for any professional porn site that does the same, all those sites where whenever you click a video or an actress, instead of showing you a preview or an actress's catalogue the page sends you straight to sign up. You can't do or see anything without signing up. I'm sorry but that's just not right.
And what I'm seeing here kind of confirms that OF is trash (at least for me). I just cannot see the worth in 15 second videos of butt jiggling or bikini pictures, not even when they're for free, least of all having to pay big bucks for a video whose length you don't know but is most likely to be <5min softcore and/or extremely low quality. And that seems to be like 95% of the content in OnlyFans.
Also, except for a few creators, most have their tits out somewhere else online, like on Reddit or PornHub, precisely to advertise their OF. So you're paying for content on OF that the girl is already giving for free somewhere else? And just topless and a few pussy pics (best case scenario a B/G where you can't see anything) are not really enough for me. In theory, on OnlyFans they're supposed to show more. But that's often not the case, and whether it is or isn't, you have to pay just find out whether paying for it was worth it in the first place. So unfair.
And even when they do indeed show more on their OnlyFans it's often behind even more paywalls. Which you guys are telling me are more often than not waaaaay overpriced, if not a straight up scam. If I knew I was guaranteed >10-15+ min videos recorded with a decentish camera and decentish lighting and showing the angles and acts I'm interested in, I'd consider it. But again those seem to be the minority.
I guess there's also the personal connection aspect, but I'm generally not interested in that, and even if I was, there's so many barriers to it, like managers answering for girls, having to tip to message them, the emotional blackmailing for more money, getting personally involved with people who are more often than not not mentally stable, in a service that's designed to get as much money from you as possible, using your own basic human instincts against you, etc, etc, etc, etc. Honestly, it's probably a good thing OF wasn't a thing many years ago, else I might have got burned in one of these.
That still leaves us custom videos. I could maybe see myself paying for custom videos. But first of all they're expensive as fuck for a few minutes of entertainment that -let's be honest- I will eventually get bored of. And second, seeing as I'm picky and these girls couldn't care less for their fans, there's like a 0% chance that I'd get what I'm asking for (after paying for a subscription to them, and then paying a tip to get the privilege to talk to some assistant/manager that will later on relay the information to the girl). Fuck that.
Ironically, there's a few creators on PornHub that I feel would be worth paying for. Because I'm already familiar with their content and I like most of it (so no leap in the dark) and even when I don't like it I can see it's still more or less well done. But guess what, the ones I like the most don't even have an OnlyFans account. All they have is a PornHub account and no other social media. To me that means they're doing it for fun and not for money, which kind of means they're not as interested in joining OF's scammy universe.
There's another few that do have OnlyFans. But their free content on PornHub is already good enough for me (for instance they'll often leave cumshots or their face reveals for the OF, but I don't care about those, so PH is enough).
Last but not least, there's professional porn, which TBH is actually what I generally prefer. OnlyFans and PornHub are mostly for a few content creators that have no analogue (or very few) in the mainstream porn sphere. But even then, their best productions are often the ones they make for or sell to professional companies.
TLDR: Which is all to say, I guess, that I'm only watching OF because it costs me nothing. If it cost me something, I wouldn't be consuming it, because I don't think it's worth the price they're asking for (most is not even worth it even when it's free). And when it is worth it, they're usually leaving enough of it on PornHub that OF isn't really necessary.
I know you guys have different interests and oftentimes professional productions and PH won't be enough and you'll have to rely on OF to get your kicks. This is just my personal perspective on why I'm not a paying customer.
I somehow accidentally ended up here in when I was looking into how to bypass News Websites paywalls. I ended up on a Reddit thread about how to bypass OnlyFans paywall and this forum was recommended.
I've never joined OnlyFans mostly because whenever you find a girl that you think is attractive and you go to her OnlyFans, you cannot really see anything, not without creating an account and giving them your credit card, at least. There's no preview, no teaser, no trailer, nothing, it's all locked posts that you have to subscribe to to unlock. You're supposed to pay first, decide later.
That's a very anti-consumer behavior. It puts all the power in the hands of the content creator. And this also applies for any professional porn site that does the same, all those sites where whenever you click a video or an actress, instead of showing you a preview or an actress's catalogue the page sends you straight to sign up. You can't do or see anything without signing up. I'm sorry but that's just not right.
And what I'm seeing here kind of confirms that OF is trash (at least for me). I just cannot see the worth in 15 second videos of butt jiggling or bikini pictures, not even when they're for free, least of all having to pay big bucks for a video whose length you don't know but is most likely to be <5min softcore and/or extremely low quality. And that seems to be like 95% of the content in OnlyFans.
Also, except for a few creators, most have their tits out somewhere else online, like on Reddit or PornHub, precisely to advertise their OF. So you're paying for content on OF that the girl is already giving for free somewhere else? And just topless and a few pussy pics (best case scenario a B/G where you can't see anything) are not really enough for me. In theory, on OnlyFans they're supposed to show more. But that's often not the case, and whether it is or isn't, you have to pay just find out whether paying for it was worth it in the first place. So unfair.
And even when they do indeed show more on their OnlyFans it's often behind even more paywalls. Which you guys are telling me are more often than not waaaaay overpriced, if not a straight up scam. If I knew I was guaranteed >10-15+ min videos recorded with a decentish camera and decentish lighting and showing the angles and acts I'm interested in, I'd consider it. But again those seem to be the minority.
I guess there's also the personal connection aspect, but I'm generally not interested in that, and even if I was, there's so many barriers to it, like managers answering for girls, having to tip to message them, the emotional blackmailing for more money, getting personally involved with people who are more often than not not mentally stable, in a service that's designed to get as much money from you as possible, using your own basic human instincts against you, etc, etc, etc, etc. Honestly, it's probably a good thing OF wasn't a thing many years ago, else I might have got burned in one of these.
That still leaves us custom videos. I could maybe see myself paying for custom videos. But first of all they're expensive as fuck for a few minutes of entertainment that -let's be honest- I will eventually get bored of. And second, seeing as I'm picky and these girls couldn't care less for their fans, there's like a 0% chance that I'd get what I'm asking for (after paying for a subscription to them, and then paying a tip to get the privilege to talk to some assistant/manager that will later on relay the information to the girl). Fuck that.
Ironically, there's a few creators on PornHub that I feel would be worth paying for. Because I'm already familiar with their content and I like most of it (so no leap in the dark) and even when I don't like it I can see it's still more or less well done. But guess what, the ones I like the most don't even have an OnlyFans account. All they have is a PornHub account and no other social media. To me that means they're doing it for fun and not for money, which kind of means they're not as interested in joining OF's scammy universe.
There's another few that do have OnlyFans. But their free content on PornHub is already good enough for me (for instance they'll often leave cumshots or their face reveals for the OF, but I don't care about those, so PH is enough).
Last but not least, there's professional porn, which TBH is actually what I generally prefer. OnlyFans and PornHub are mostly for a few content creators that have no analogue (or very few) in the mainstream porn sphere. But even then, their best productions are often the ones they make for or sell to professional companies.
TLDR: Which is all to say, I guess, that I'm only watching OF because it costs me nothing. If it cost me something, I wouldn't be consuming it, because I don't think it's worth the price they're asking for (most is not even worth it even when it's free). And when it is worth it, they're usually leaving enough of it on PornHub that OF isn't really necessary.
I know you guys have different interests and oftentimes professional productions and PH won't be enough and you'll have to rely on OF to get your kicks. This is just my personal perspective on why I'm not a paying customer.
Fansly allows you to see a creator's feed (or at least, posts taggegd as free updates) if you follow them (does not count as a subscription though)
which also allows you to see just how often they post, a huge component on the value of a creators page. Thats one of the plethora of reasons fansly is a vastly superior platform imo
But that's also a setting on Onlyfans from what I understand. Some girls, you can scroll the entire wall, see dates and captions and it merely says 'Subscribe to see User's posts' on every single post. Then others use the 'shitty option' where you just get a big summary of how many posts/media they've made and to subscribe, with no idea when the last was or what the captions are.
Aye thats true, though with how bloody rare that is, i suspect that the shitty option is the default, whereas it should be the the other. Most of these creators aren't gonna go through the settings that don't include money, lets be real here
OF needs to set the scrolling wall to be the default, and give the option for open content, so you dont have dozens of people having 2 pages (free and paid, which is stupid) in order to be as user friendly for all involved as possible
At the very minimum I want Onlyfans to show how long each video is if the creator sends multiple in a post.
Yes and I would add also some indicators about content - percentages of explecit, simple nude , lingerie and clothed, ans these markers on paid videos so you can see what should you expect and avoid buying pack of swimsuit photoes for 50 bucks.
This is one of the main reasons I abandoned OF entirely. I've never seen a website that is as aggressively anti-consumer as OnlyFans, and they're clearly never going to add that feature because then the millions of scamming cunts on their platform couldn't fleece their subscribers for every penny they have.
He's going off, but he's right about the part about porn being thrown at us at a very young age lol. Natalia Queen has a livestream up and she kept telling everyone to follow her Twitter for 5+ minutes straight, until she said not if you're under 18, then blocked me when I pointed out that they watch porn too cause that shit is everywhere thanks to overexposure lol.
Just sealed the deal of me not buying her content, and actually makes me actively want to leak content.
I consumed a lot of porn as a teen so this might sound a bit hypocritical but I don't like how there's a lot of sex workers on tiktok who know they have a large teen following but still post content that's explicit or hinting towards it.
Although I think fringe cases are used to exagerrate the numbers, by and large I think consuming a lot of porn at a young age isn't good for boys.
I haven't read the entire discourse but just want to add one to the sentiment from the first few pages, Simping ain't easy and the most galling and off putting thing is when you're so turned on by one of these OF "content creators" and they just don't get how to maximize or deliver a good product, a few of them I've followed for months and spent more than I should have because time and time again you get delievered underwhelming or straight misleading content.
Even worse when the "content creators" don't understand their own value? I'll give you an example a English model who appeared on some cam sites called Mikki B (Mikayla Bayliss) she's to me anyway one of the finest females on OF but she's all over the place with content charging anywhere from $4.99 to $49.99 for PPV content, yet the $49.99 video is shorter, less explicit and more dissapointing than any single piece of media I've spent money on then there's a $29.99 video where she's fully wanking and genuinely orgasming where is the fucking sense?
I wish you could get a clear and concise messages to the thots, make CLEAR and TRANSPARENT content priced reasonably and they'd have so many more repeat customers imo anyway but instead its the quick rip and slip con, sad.
Even worse when the "content creators" don't understand their own value? I'll give you an example a English model who appeared on some cam sites called Mikki B (Mikayla Bayliss) she's to me anyway one of the finest females on OF but she's all over the place with content charging anywhere from $4.99 to $49.99 for PPV content, yet the $49.99 video is shorter, less explicit and more dissapointing than any single piece of media I've spent money on then there's a $29.99 video where she's fully wanking and genuinely orgasming where is the fucking sense?
I wish you could get a clear and concise messages to the thots, make CLEAR and TRANSPARENT content priced reasonably and they'd have so many more repeat customers imo anyway but instead its the quick rip and slip con, sad.