Discussion What are some porn gripes/pet peeves of yours?

[malhim40]

It's tough trying to describe a pet peeve when it can just be a personal preference or kink.

I can't stand solo scenes where the woman looks amazing and then she starts talking to the camera in a derogatory manner. I get that some guys want to be total social subs and just have someone talk down to them. It's totally not for me. Those scenes genuinely make me feel bad for guys that need to seek therapy. I don't want to kink shame; I just want people to be able to operate in the world and not look for that in a real, toxic, relationship.

As a side note, I do have a thing for hotwife or cheating-wife content. I would never choose that lifestyle for myself, as I find it alien, but it's hot as someone that finds other married women hot. My pet peeve in this sub-genre is that almost all BBC content. It's like they combine a concept of cheating with the intentional humiliation of cheating and what could be worse than cheating with a black man. It's a very strange, reverse-racist take on black men, almost dehumanizing black men as a taboo partner.

 

[Bob20407]

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Shared pet peeve because 99% of internet squirting is pee. Which is fine because nobody's demonizing watersports. But.

Squirt is not urine. The medical literature picked a really bad terminology that further confuses people. In the medical literature, a different term such as female ejaculation is often used. The term squirt is usually a synonym for pee, like taking a slash would be.

Most medical literature will also say some urea is found in female ejaculate, so it must contain urine. This is idiotic, because male urine also contains urea. Does anyone think cum is pee? A man squirting would also be urine in medical terminology, to show you how silly this is.

Women who ejaculate shouldn't usually be shooting across the room, due to biology. But most men just dribble most of the time anyway. It's not so dissimilar.

But saying "squirt is pee" in the common vernacular is like saying cum is pee. We don't want to confuse the kids. My wife squirts, and trust me, it's not urine. She just likes to ejaculate. Same as any man who's figured out non-ejaculating prostate orgasms craves "regular" orgasms. My wife needs a good ejaculation once in a while same as I do. It's just way more gush, and way less super soaker.

 

[Lemmyisgod]

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Yeah, that is not "squirting", it is just "cumming" like a man would do. Just like a woman getting "wet" is just like a man's precum, both are meant as natural lube. Most women are capable of having a wet orgasm, it really just varies between them how much fluid is produced, just the same as seminal volume with men. No woman that "squirts" is doing anything other than peeing. It just boils down to incorrect terminology.