Discussion How NOT to get scammed by a Pornstar/Model

[joefriday2]

In OF be careful if anyone did a bundle promo. If the amount of videos + pricing sounds too good to be true, the video might be very very short and not worth the price even if all of it bundle up. Go for single fixed content or discuss with the content creator first before making any purchases.

Also, have anyone tried out those that offer custom or videocall? Not a fan of either of these two but I'm just curious whether those are scams or real. A lot model I follow offer this but I never go for it.

re customs and video call I have heard nothing but very good things about Ashley lane.

 

[joefriday2]

Oh yeah-- that VIP stuff is 100% scam. Do it at your own caution. You're paying $100 just to get ignored pretty much the same as everyone else. I subscribed to one a bit ago, and after 4 months have gotten a total of 3 pictures normal subs were not able to get. Try to let it go and just find another girl. With that 100, you can make most smaller creators do just about whatever you want.

it's not a total scam. I did it w Lumi ray and i've gotten my 3 free sex tapes a month (a $27 value at the rate she sells hers) and she does respond to me. Not all of them scam but i agree w what u said earlier. Assess very. very carefully after you've jerked off.

 

[joefriday2]

Sadly this is becoming a common practice and quite frankly it makes little sense. It just creates confusion with fans. Maybe she is greedy and thinks having multiple accounts means more money

they're not allowed by of's tos to have multiple accts except for 1 normal 1 vip soooo something smells

 

[jk121212]

I've only ever had a couple bad experiences but it wasn't anything major and I didn't lose too much money. I only have a few tips and it I'll be very blunt because I'm stating the obvious but people still seem to always fall for the stuff anyways

- READ THE BIO: A lot of chicks will flat out say they don't do nudity there. If you buy a clip titled "Look how good my tits look!!!" and she's not topless but says in her bio no nudity, you weren't scammed. Or if you're not sure, send a small tip to the creator flat out asking if they send nudity. A lot of them will be upfront about it.

- You're not talking to her: The reality is that a management company is running the account. Sub to enough of these girls and it becomes obvious. They all structure DMs the same and use the same phrases and sentences to describe clips. For YEARS sex workers have made their bread and butter from selling the reality of a "relationship" and OF/Fansly etc are no different. Some of these girls have thousands of subs on OF and millions of followers across all social media platforms. They do not have the time to be personally talking to a bunch of horny dudes and personally running their account. They frankly have better things to do with their time.

- It's probably not a custom: Unless she's saying your name or you've requested something incredibly specific, it's probably a video she has saved for the specific purpose of people who've made similar requests frequently in the past

I was following a few models on OF recently and I guess they all use the same agency and switched to a different one because all of a sudden from each model I started to receive these messages:

"Tip me for coffee?"

"Wanna play a game? Tip me $20"

and lots of variations of those.


Re: customs, the few I've ordered have also been exactly what I requested (outfit, etc) and I never paid prior to delivery. It would just take a lot of followup/reminder messages.


Is there an accurate way to figure out how many subs someone has? I was trying to guesstimate based on the # of likes they'll get from a photo post. Sometimes it'll be in the 50 or 60s and other times it'll be in the low 30s.

 

[Gtyruush]

Assess very. very carefully after you've jerked off.

My rule of thumb with this is

Is the girl worth a jerk off to sub?

If no, Then skip her & find another girl worthy of a jerk off

Also, To add, My simple methods of saving money without feeling scammed

- If on a free trial, Make Sure to unsub the day before free trial ends (Most cases, You can sub again for free instantly using free trial)

- If a girls OF cost more than $15 month & it's all PPV (Especially if PPV content costs more than the sub itself like $50 for a 1 min video with very scammy caption like "Hope this makes you cum" Instant unsub

- If a girls OF doesn't show previews &/or timestamps for PPV videos, Instant unsub, We as subs deserve to know what we pay for

- If a girls OF is clearly run by agencies, Instant unsub, I'm subbed to talk to the girl, Not some dude that uses very scammy tactics to get the most amount of money

- NEVER pay PPV's anything more than $10, They are NEVER worth it (Angela White sends Ultra high quality full length content as PPV's but only $3 & ALWAYS worth it)

- ALWAYS claim free trials if you can, (I'm so grateful for the OnlyFans Free Trials thread on here )

- if a girls OF switches pricing all the time like going from $10/m to $30/m with no explanation & goes back again with costly spamming PPV's, Instant unsub

- NEVER pay upfront for a custom video on OF (You WILL not receive your custom & OF doesn't give a shit) ALWAYS work out another method to pay for your custom video where the buyers are ALWAYS protected

MV is a great platform that protects BOTH the buyer & seller where the buyer submits their custom video request with funds & the girls have I believe 7 days to complete, Otherwise your money WILL be returned to the buyer as MV withholds the funds till custom video request is sent to the buyer

I have other ways NOT to get scammed, But these suggestions ALWAYS work for me & should all work for you

Would love to hear more suggestions

Stay strong Kings Don't EVER let these girls scam you

 

[joefriday2]

My rule of thumb with this is

Is the girl worth a jerk off to sub?

If no, Then skip her & find another girl worthy of a jerk off

Also, To add, My simple methods of saving money without feeling scammed

- If on a free trial, Make Sure to unsub the day before free trial ends (Most cases, You can sub again for free instantly using free trial)

- If a girls OF cost more than $15 month & it's all PPV (Especially if PPV content costs more than the sub itself like $50 for a 1 min video with very scammy caption like "Hope this makes you cum" Instant unsub

- If a girls OF doesn't show previews &/or timestamps for PPV videos, Instant unsub, We as subs deserve to know what we pay for

- If a girls OF is clearly run by agencies, Instant unsub, I'm subbed to talk to the girl, Not some dude that uses very scammy tactics to get the most amount of money

- NEVER pay PPV's anything more than $10, They are NEVER worth it (Angela White sends Ultra high quality full length content as PPV's but only $3 & ALWAYS worth it)

- ALWAYS claim free trials if you can, (I'm so grateful for the OnlyFans Free Trials thread on here )

- if a girls OF switches pricing all the time like going from $10/m to $30/m with no explanation & goes back again with costly spamming PPV's, Instant unsub

- NEVER pay upfront for a custom video on OF (You WILL not receive your custom & OF doesn't give a shit) ALWAYS work out another method to pay for your custom video where the buyers are ALWAYS protected

MV is a great platform that protects BOTH the buyer & seller where the buyer submits their custom video request with funds & the girls have I believe 7 days to complete, Otherwise your money WILL be returned to the buyer as MV withholds the funds till custom video request is sent to the buyer

I have other ways NOT to get scammed, But these suggestions ALWAYS work for me & should all work for you

Would love to hear more suggestions

Stay strong Kings Don't EVER let these girls scam you

do share the other ways bro. i think everyone can benefit from learning from you. also check ur dms ;)

 

[Brandon the Lionheart]

Thanks for that post, PremiumNick. You're speaking nothiing but truth!

 

[Sj1h]

I was following a few models on OF recently and I guess they all use the same agency and switched to a different one because all of a sudden from each model I started to receive these messages:

"Tip me for coffee?"

"Wanna play a game? Tip me $20"

and lots of variations of those.


Re: customs, the few I've ordered have also been exactly what I requested (outfit, etc) and I never paid prior to delivery. It would just take a lot of followup/reminder messages.


Is there an accurate way to figure out how many subs someone has? I was trying to guesstimate based on the # of likes they'll get from a photo post. Sometimes it'll be in the 50 or 60s and other times it'll be in the low 30s.

Yeah I always follow with the assumption that it's run by an agency. I don't care if it's a dude in an office running the account because I'm not following to talk to them. There's real life for that.

There's one chick I follow who has 700 subs and most of her likes likes range between 30-60. So my guess is the average likes would be 10ish percent. But that's just pulling a number out of my ass. I've seen some girls who have insane engagement but the content is just okay and others with barely any engagement despite putting out great content. Seems like there's no hard and fast rule

 

[HornoJorno]

Re: customs, the few I've ordered have also been exactly what I requested (outfit, etc) and I never paid prior to delivery. It would just take a lot of followup/reminder messages.

Thats something i want to follow, i ordered a few customs and i pay early, i got everything but i always fear the day i get scammed

 

[MilesParker24]

Thats something i want to follow, i ordered a few customs and i pay early, i got everything but i always fear the day i get scammed

Early on I used to pay up front but then I had a bad experience with a creator and swore I will never pay upfront again. If you can always ask for your customs to be delivered locked and if they are unwilling to do that or give you push back just remember there are plenty of fish in the thot sea

 

[CLENYCLEB]

Early on I used to pay up front but then I had a bad experience with a creator and swore I will never pay upfront again. If you can always ask for your customs to be delivered locked and if they are unwilling to do that or give you push back just remember there are plenty of fish in the thot sea

Very few creators are willing to start a custom without payment in half or full. They have all the leverage as theres 5-50 other guys requesting a custom as well.

I recommend petition OF for refund (i'm 2 for 2), just take good screenshots of convo if they don't deliver.

Worst case charge back but you'll lose your acct.

 

[MilesParker24]

Very few creators are willing to start a custom without payment in half or full. They have all the leverage as theres 5-50 other guys requesting a custom as well.

I recommend petition OF for refund (i'm 2 for 2), just take good screenshots of convo if they don't deliver.

Worst case charge back but you'll lose your acct.

You'd be surprised by the number of females who accept the unlocked message method. OF will do a refund with proof in the form of screenshots. I am 4 of 5 when it comes to that. Also they think they have all the leverage but they don't. In one instance this girl was asking for a ridiculous amount of money and a equally as ridiculous wait time. I brought the girl back to reality when I mentioned that it's cool I will get my custom elsewhere. 1 hour later she agreed to my terms. They may very well have dozens of people willing to buy customs but at the same time there are thousands of girls we can choose from. Fish in the thot sea gentlemen!

 

[HornoJorno]

Early on I used to pay up front but then I had a bad experience with a creator and swore I will never pay upfront again. If you can always ask for your customs to be delivered locked and if they are unwilling to do that or give you push back just remember there are plenty of fish in the thot sea

Yeah thats a good advice!!

 

[freethecoomer98465]

Going to contribute to the community here:
1. AVOID KIK LIVESTREAMERS AT ALL COSTS. Anybody selling nudes that isnt already on a fansite or camgirl site, or on a moderated forum like r/SexSells should be instantly disqualified. There's no accountability outside of these platforms. Even though OF or Fansly isnt going to refund you, at the very least they have a robust identity verification process.
2. Do not purchase anything through Cashapp, Paypal, or venmo unless the seller already has an established online presence.
3. Avoid any bundles that say $1000 worth of content. The 1000$ is arbitrary, some model told me her price for a 10min video is 1000$ , so the number behind that dollar sign is MEANINGLESS.
4. Trust your gut and google EVERYONE before purchasing.
last but not least, and probably THE MOST IMPORTANT:
5. try to stick to free porn, and dont ever go down this rabbit hole (its a dark lonely place)

 

[freethecoomer98465]

How much do u guys spend on content in total ? I feel like I spent too much in the past three years ($750)

I have spent approximately 10k+ over the course of 4 years.
real talk, i need jesus.

 

[CLENYCLEB]

I have spent approximately 10k+ over the course of 4 years.
real talk, i need jesus.

Only 750 lol i spent that just this month. Easily $40K in past 3 years, mostly due to starting to make a lot more through work and using OF as a stress outlet.

Dont take this the wrong way. Not bragging about wasting money on porn, its shameful and your a better man than me at the moment.

 

[freethecoomer98465]

Only 750 lol i spent that just this month. Easily $40K in past 3 years, mostly due to starting to make a lot more through work and using OF as a stress outlet.

Dont take this the wrong way. Not bragging about wasting money on porn, its shameful and your a better man than me at the moment.

which model did you spend the most on in a single purchase? my highest was lik 800, and i almost spent 1k today before a slapped some sense into myself

 

[CLENYCLEB]

which model did you spend the most on in a single purchase? my highest was lik 800, and i almost spent 1k today before a slapped some sense into myself

Ya mine was around she same—$950 via PayPal. But it was for custom dildo riding vid and this model dosnt even do nude so really exclusive shit. She didn’t disappoint either it amazing video I don’t regret it.

Did you almost spend 1k on one creator today?

Expense really goes up honestly when your subbed to 20-40 creators and they send $20-80 ppvs every other day. It just adds up so quickly and I don’t even know I spent 500 in a week until I look. So that’s my problem, not being able to walk away from a ppv that I know won’t be posted on the forums. FOMO I guess.

 

[freethecoomer98465]

Did you almost spend 1k on one creator today?

Expense really goes up honestly when your subbed to 20-40 creators and they send $20-80 ppvs every other day. It just adds up so quickly and I don’t even know I spent 500 in a week until I look. So that’s my problem, not being able to walk away from a ppv that I know won’t be posted on the forums. FOMO I guess.

Yeah FOMO is a killer.

And yeah my dumbass almost shelled out 1k for a single custom today from a new creator. They didnt show face so their price for with face was 1k so i was considering it but then I looked at her follower count, and I realized there is no way an account with less than 1k likes on their OF page is worth 1k.
Financial crisis averted.

 

[jekelboy]

As someone who dropped 11k+ in 2 years on OF, and am now almost completely out the game, here are some tips to get un-addicted:
-If a girl becomes boring to you at ANY point during the subscription, or if you get a sudden moment of clarity, don't just not-resubscribe-- block her.
-If there's ever a piece of content worth $150+... think if it would be better than having a REAL girl. Bc over that amount, you can literally buy the real thing.
-Mute OF message notifications.
-Jerk off as early as possible in the day.
-When you find a new girl, don't sub right away. Add her to your 'list' option on OF, and come back to her tomorrow. If you're not still interested, delete her.
-Give yourself a hard subscription limit of 4 at any time. You can sub to new girls, but it requires getting rid of the old.
-When a pricey ppv arises, think, if the price is worth more than some nice new clothes, a flight somewhere fun, or a delicious plate of ribs... is it worth it? Spend it on those things instead.
-Watch some motivating guy fantasy film like Limitless to try to feel less like a jerk-off cavetroll.
-Rely heavily on this site and other free ones for your pornography use.
-Use your moments of clarity to hard divest as much as possible from OF as you can. (Block models, Disconnect your card from OF, etc.)
I now spend less than 10 bucks a week on OF average. Good luck.