So sorry to be the bearer of bad news but I messaged my connection to the Ruby Fancord last night asking if that guy ever ended up uploading the VOD, and he said that he ended up having second thoughts after he learned that Ruby privated it herself (as opposed to YouTube privating it). I'm sorry to get you guys' hopes up over this. Believe me, I'm just as disappointed as you are.
Going forward though, we definitely need to have someone recording her VODs as they happen to prevent this kind of mistake again.