First of all, I'm not disagreeing with this thread's purpose, I want to make it clear. I absolutely can see the problem for some users, like I said. And you're making some good points. Better that ballroom blitz, that's for damn sure.
I just wanted to bring a bit of a different point of view (or more precisely - defend a guy who tried to bring it and got brainletted, lol). I mean, at the end of a day we're all OF users here.
But #1 ties directly into the girlfriend experience. Because it's directed at people who's looking for it. And like I said, this can be a big problem, but I can't speak for them. I'm talking about people like me here, we exist. I know what I'm looking for, I hit the DMs and I request it.
All the other times that she sends me the "hey babe I'm horny"s, I just ingore it. I know that it's an engagement bait that "she" sends en masse and will unsend later most likely. I don't give a shit about it.
#2 is in the similar vein, treat it like a marketing/spam. Read it carefully if you wanna learn about her discounts and offerings, ask clarifying questions, check the previews on her other soical media. Don't buy anything that you're not confident in.
Now, if they're just straight up finessing and scamming - of course that's awful, but that's just another topic, in my opinion. Anyone can scam.
But if you're saying that there's correlation between agency work and incentive to scam - that's an interesting point. I'll give it to you.
#3 - I'm sure they relay constructive criticisms and suggestions to her? Normally they should. If not, that seems like a problem of this particular page that's being run in a shitty way.
#4 - content possibly being pricier is a good point.
#5 - interesting point, might be a bit overblown tho IMO. Again, that seems like a particular creator's problem. There are self-run pages who absolutely phone it in as well.