It's one thing to hold out hope for a return to the platforms where she may have had content. It is another matter to wish bad things for her or try to meddle in her personal life as if they are owed something.
Nastiness notwithstanding, I think Aftyn handled her exit very poorly. I kept up a bit on her second hiatus to see if there had been any new developments around her return and saw the frequent posts on other forums stating that she had "paused her Patreon AGAIN", leading to a lot of the familiar characters bitching about the lack of progress/new content. Whatever her exact reasons - mental health, doxxing, falling in love and the guy not being OK with what she was doing, getting the bag - she attained a "queen bee"-level status and disappointed a lot of people in disappearing. Anytime money is involved and you piss people off, you're going to bring on a lot of the trouble that comes your way if you're someone like Aftyn.
Subscriptions are essentially a business transaction - it's bad for creators to shortchange customers the monthly/weekly/etc. expectations that the creator defines in advance based on those tiers. And because we don't have easy ways of rating creators the way we do products on a website or businesses through Yelp, people can get easily scammed this way when they make that commitment and the creator continually falls short of the mark. And I don't think it matters if the parent company steps in with refunds, it's a bad look for both them and the creator when they allow someone who can't meet self-defined expectations because of whatever they have going on.
Although Patreon/Onlyfans/Fansly has made it easier for people act as their own business while being on the platform, there's no education qualification or accreditation that they have to possess to be able to have a presence on these platforms unlike real businesses, and that means that these creators can get away with their antics with fewer consequences. And as we're finding out too that in a lot of cases, they can keep the money and the platform may refuse to step in with a refund - this happens with Onlyfans and PPVs/custom content a lot.
TL;DR here is that yes, we're adults and we need to not say nasty things like what ssfan is referencing with other posters on other forums. But if any number of those posters had money riding on Aftyn's content, a percentage of what is being said is on Aftyn for keeping various accounts and websites open attached to her name after all this time. Her departure/exit was sloppy and people have a right to be angry/disappointed while maintaining their civility towards the situation.