Discussion Worst Experience with a pornstar/model?

[thatboyuknow7]

I once knew a model whom I help build up her Instagram and Twitter pages (I run a shoutout page btw) from scratch when she was just building up. After a year or so, she grew big and got fame on onlyfans. I used to post her regularly on my stories and feed. One day we were having a chat and she had posted a pic where she looked thicc and chubby so I called out on that and she went all crazy and blocked me off from all her social accounts - not even giving me a chance to explain *sigh*. I swear man, decency takes you no place in this era.

 

[harmilch]

I once knew a model whom I help build up her Instagram and Twitter pages (I run a shoutout page btw) from scratch when she was just building up. After a year or so, she grew big and got fame on onlyfans. I used to post her regularly on my stories and feed. One day we were having a chat and she had posted a pic where she looked thicc and chubby so I called out on that and she went all crazy and blocked me off from all her social accounts - not even giving me a chance to explain *sigh*. I swear man, decency takes you no place in this era.

probably shouldn't have called her a cow

 

[Dead_Fish]

I once knew a model whom I help build up her Instagram and Twitter pages (I run a shoutout page btw) from scratch when she was just building up. After a year or so, she grew big and got fame on onlyfans. I used to post her regularly on my stories and feed. One day we were having a chat and she had posted a pic where she looked thicc and chubby so I called out on that and she went all crazy and blocked me off from all her social accounts - not even giving me a chance to explain *sigh*. I swear man, decency takes you no place in this era.

Golden pussy syndrome.

 

[dakontroller]

I once knew a model whom I help build up her Instagram and Twitter pages (I run a shoutout page btw) from scratch when she was just building up. After a year or so, she grew big and got fame on onlyfans. I used to post her regularly on my stories and feed. One day we were having a chat and she had posted a pic where she looked thicc and chubby so I called out on that and she went all crazy and blocked me off from all her social accounts - not even giving me a chance to explain *sigh*. I swear man, decency takes you no place in this era.

You did the right thing big man.

When you see pork, you should grunt.

So many bitches nowadays get attention while they're slim and hot, then get beefy and meaty quick - all while constantly getting reinforcement and compliments from zero guys that struggle to get 3/10 clam.

These stonewall mega betas are creating a world for all the normal guys that take care of themselves where the females are bigger than the males.

This is why the UK sucks. 70% of the couples have a setup where the girls weigh more than the guys...

The men go to the gym, the girls go to FaceTune and a paste on an inch of makeup.

It's physiologically difficult to achieve what they've done, but they have done it - through low standards and softness.

Every time I go to the UK, I feel shocked at the state of the women.

If we have to have abs and go to the gym (which I enjoy, but takes recognizable work and commitment), then why do the flabby bitches get to lord it over the everyman?

I'm lucky and fortunate - I have money, I'm fit, I'm healthy, and I can manage my own time. I can run organic relationships or paid visits. But some of my friends don't, and I know their struggle. And if I were in college nowadays, I don't even know how I'd compete to get a girl. I'd be competing with guys like me (today's me) who can offer them far more.

I hook up with a lot of girls my junior - both paid and unpaid - because girls my age (early 30s) have decided they can cultivate deadly mass.

You keep doing you my dude. I do the same and regularly turn girls away if they're fat meatier than promised.

Also RIP Maddy Oreilley and the thousands of pornstars that went a similar route. And to the guys thirsting over fat girls... stop. You're ruining the world for the rest of us and creating a future where nobody wants to go.

 

[dakontroller]

To try and bring some life in this thread, I'll try to jump in later this evening with a tale of when I accidentally illegally had to pay to bring a passport-less Russian camgirl into a different country.

And the time when I went to visit a girl for a night in Europe and ended up being "taken" to live in a private, secluded cabin for 4 nights with 2 "businessmen" and their guards, whilst we ice fished, ate meat, fucked prostitutes, hunted animals with guns, and vomited in just about every nook and cranny of a forest.

 

[Dead_Fish]

1h for outcall

Doesn't escorting jeopardize the professional careers of pornstars? We know that their shooting partners have to get tested regularly. But can they demand that their clients get tested? I don't think so. In that case, they're sleeping with untested men. So what's the point of mandatory testing in the industry?

 

[Aurrific]

Doesn't escorting jeopardize the professional careers of pornstars? We know that their shooting partners have to get tested regularly. But can they demand that their clients get tested? I don't think so. In that case, they're sleeping with untested men. So what's the point of mandatory testing in the industry?

I would say it depends. Most "professionals", those that take it seriously, require either proof of recent test results or a strong referral network, just to somewhat guarantee safety.

I think additionally they are usually contracted to required to test weekly if not every other week.

I'm sure "accidents" occur, but nothing along the lines of like what the hiv epidemic had. A shot and 7 day quarantine is usually sufficient.

(Not an expert)

 

[lvg99]

Doesn't escorting jeopardize the professional careers of pornstars? We know that their shooting partners have to get tested regularly. But can they demand that their clients get tested? I don't think so. In that case, they're sleeping with untested men. So what's the point of mandatory testing in the industry?

Most pornstars that offer bare require a clean test within 7 days. With Reese it was 3 days when we first met. She didn't ask for me to get tested after she moved in.

 

[Dead_Fish]

I would say it depends. Most "professionals", those that take it seriously, require either proof of recent test results or a strong referral network, just to somewhat guarantee safety.

I think additionally they are usually contracted to required to test weekly if not every other week.

I'm sure "accidents" occur, but nothing along the lines of like what the hiv epidemic had. A shot and 7 day quarantine is usually sufficient.

(Not an expert)

It may not be a big enough threat to cause a epidemic, but imagine if a pre-booked scene was canceled due to a STD the female talent contracted from outside the industry. How would that affect her reputation in the eyes of directors? I guess escorting female talents don't care much about this risk.

A female talent once tweeted that on a trip to Europe she slept with a waiter she saw in a restaurant. On another trip, with a random guy in a beach club. When I asked her about it, she reacted in a very extreme way and accused me of being a stalker, of implying that she slept with untested men. I was like, "Chill, bro. It wasn't classified information or a state secret. I'm talking about a tweet you sent out for your thousands of followers to see. How does that make me a stalker?"

I mean, why tweet about a secret(!) you don't want people to know? Fans are not just there to praise your every work and support you blindly. Isn't it normal for them to be curious about what you write, what you say?

 

[jan30bb]

I would think if girls are going on a little escort tour, they'd just schedule a week off before returning to shoot. My impression is girls tends to shoot shoot shoot for a month or so and then cool off anyway.

 

[nobody5]

saw this in kelsi monroe's comments. i think chris learned the wrong lesson here. and the fact that he need 2 accounts to say that is a bit troubling.

 

[Aurrific]

It may not be a big enough threat to cause a epidemic, but imagine if a pre-booked scene was canceled due to a STD the female talent contracted from outside the industry. How would that affect her reputation in the eyes of directors? I guess escorting female talents don't care much about this risk.

A female talent once tweeted that on a trip to Europe she slept with a waiter she saw in a restaurant. On another trip, with a random guy in a beach club. When I asked her about it, she reacted in a very extreme way and accused me of being a stalker, of implying that she slept with untested men. I was like, "Chill, bro. It wasn't classified information or a state secret. I'm talking about a tweet you sent out for your thousands of followers to see. How does that make me a stalker?"

I mean, why tweet about a secret(!) you don't want people to know? Fans are not just there to praise your every work and support you blindly. Isn't it normal for them to be curious about what you write, what you say?

I think your thinking about this way too much. Like you are trying to audit the movements and activities of actual people and their lives...and then you get upset when they respond reasonably. there are parasocial relationships (which are unhealthy to start with) and then there is what you describe as doing.

if you are considering going down the escort route, have an open and honest conversation with the talent. discuss your fears and concerns, and whatever terms make you feel most comfortable and move forward. If a talent doesnt jive well with that, then move on. take your money elsewhere.

Its literally that simple.

 

[Dead_Fish]

There is neither a parasocial relationship nor an upset. It wasn't just about escorting, although that was the starting point. I guess I could not express myself fully because of the details I left out in order not to make the post too long.

She was sending messages saying she was looking for a partner to shoot new content for her OF page. After a while, there was a BG scene that she sent as a PPV with a non-industry guy. I asked him if she chose her partners from her subscribers and she said yes. Then the conversation I described in the previous message developed and she overreacted. I didn't imply or accuse her of anything she didn't say.

I think your thinking about this way too much. Like you are trying to audit the movements and activities of actual people and their lives...and then you get upset when they respond reasonably. there are parasocial relationships (which are unhealthy to start with) and then there is what you describe as doing.

if you are considering going down the escort route, have an open and honest conversation with the talent. discuss your fears and concerns, and whatever terms make you feel most comfortable and move forward. If a talent doesnt jive well with that, then move on. take your money elsewhere.

Its literally that simple.

 

[Aurrific]

Thanks for the context, and I apologize If I misunderstood.

Word of advice, girls who advertise they are looking for any old talent to shoot with fall in 3 categories:

1) bullshit- they have full time partners/bf/married. But they want to give customers the appeal that "it could be you" to milk subscriptions.

2) bullshit - it's all about engagement and likes as that ads to their income, and they have no intention of shooting

3) are specifically looking for other content creators for collaboration and the vetting process is strict. But they don't want to say that as it fucks with points 1 and 2.

Any sort of "fuck a fan" or Larkin love's "cocktail auditions" should be a red flag.

The rare case where I've seen non-industry of girls actually do this...lets say you probably wouldn't want to fuck them anyway.

 

[laustin88]

Thanks for the context, and I apologize If I misunderstood.

Word of advice, girls who advertise they are looking for any old talent to shoot with fall in 3 categories:

1) bullshit- they have full time partners/bf/married. But they want to give customers the appeal that "it could be you" to milk subscriptions.

2) bullshit - it's all about engagement and likes as that ads to their income, and they have no intention of shooting

3) are specifically looking for other content creators for collaboration and the vetting process is strict. But they don't want to say that as it fucks with points 1 and 2.

Any sort of "fuck a fan" or Larkin love's "cocktail auditions" should be a red flag.

The rare case where I've seen non-industry of girls actually do this...lets say you probably wouldn't want to fuck them anyway.

Goddamn, man. Just let me believe there's a chance...

So you're saying the Cameron Canela fuck a fan was bullshit?

Some of them have to be real...

 

[Dead_Fish]

Thanks for the context, and I apologize If I misunderstood.

That’s all right. Don't mention it.

I agree with you on all three points. In addition, based on my experience so far, I would say that 90% of what creators say is a red flag, not just "f.ck a fan contest" type stuff.

It would be naive to expect to find sincerity in an environment where only money is at stake.

 

[Aurrific]

Goddamn, man. Just let me believe there's a chance...

So you're saying the Cameron Canela fuck a fan was bullshit?

Some of them have to be real...

dont let your dreams be dreams....

I'd just go pro. sure its pricier, but you know what youre getting up front, no games. And some of them are legitimately the nicest folks you'll ever meet, and not because you're coming with an envelope full of cash.

 

[Brandon the Lionheart]

Brittney Palmer. I wasn't sure where to put this because I'm not sure if it qualifies as an experience, but it's lately HER content is starting to get pricey, and if she was already using an agency, it's even MORE obvious now. For example: "Open something, silly" or "You need to show me how much you love me and buy some content". So, I bought something. Eight pics for $45 and I think she's only topless in maybe three of them.

It's just like with that girl Kari Nautique, these IG models suddenly want you to spend MORE money for less content, then when you don't, YOU'RE made to feel like the asshole. If I don't buy anything from them, it's because they've started pricing out most of their fans. The only reason I haven't dropped either of these girls yet is because they were a part of what drove me to OF in the first place. I guess I was REALLY down bad.

 

[lvg99]

Got an offer on my house last week so I made the mistake of unblocking her because I don't want to deal with getting rid of her stuff. And of course just more garbage from her and still 0 accountability. First time I ever heard of someone being "taken advantage of" by being given $12,000 and a place to live. And the "names" I called her were liar and ummmm liar. So really just factual statements. And it's somehow my fault she has no one (just another lie because she's living with the coke head BF). The common denominator in everyone leaving her is HER because she treats people like shit.

 

[jan30bb]

Got an offer on my house last week so I made the mistake of unblocking her because I don't want to deal with getting rid of her stuff. And of course just more garbage from her and still 0 accountability. First time I ever heard of someone being "taken advantage of" by being given $12,000 and a place to live. And the "names" I called her were liar and ummmm liar. So really just factual statements. And it's somehow my fault she has no one (just another lie because she's living with the coke head BF). The common denominator in everyone leaving her is HER because she treats people like shit.

Get rid of it ASAP and wash your hands of it. Almost there, homie.