We've debated this on the the internet quite a bit and I think that it's fine to criticize, but it often devolves into pure hate almost, and that doesn't really help anything. Now, I often think people in general are too easily offended(and often people who have nothing to do with the person being criticized, think simps, people who disagree politically and what not), but it's quite clear when it's too far. I can't remember when she removed her videos, but it seems your deduction has a high possibility of being true.
Yeah, I've never been comfortable with women, more like girls in this case, being together with much older men. I guess it's the same for men, however, it's much rarer. It's no problem when they're both older since they're fully grown and don't get exploited so easily, but when they're young? Nah, it's weird. In school there was a girl, who wasn't more than 13-14, that had a boyfriend who was 21 or something. Every time someone spoke about it they all thought it was weird, but we were kids so we didn't think more of it. Now when I'm older it's dawned on me how fucked the entire thing was. What's worse is that her parents approved of it. Better than that girl who murdered her parents with her boyfriend because they didn't approve - the Richardson family murders - I suppose.
Yeah, it feels a bit strange that it starts so early nowadays and people are cheering it on. I'd get it, to some extent, if only people their age saw it, but there's far more older men than there are people close to their age and they applaud and lust like crazy. If they want to do it, do so in silence rather than posting your face publicly along with some weird text. It seems like people think those who post content appreciate those who watch on a personal basis, which is the farthest from the truth one can come. I highly doubt that e-girl, age 19, wants to see your 55-year old mug and your family photos that you upload to your Instagram when you try to serenade her. They like your money. Some, sure, like the attention they're getting but I highly doubt they appreciate you, the individual.
Oh, I agree. Often they, like you say, get offended when someone acts like you'd think a horny man would. There, however, I think lies a fault from both sides. What some people say is absolutely rancid and extremely cringeworthy and I wouldn't dare, nor understand, feel the need to say what they do. But, considering what the creator is posting it's expected and therefore shouldn't be ragged on by the one creating the content. To conclude: men are pigs, but it's known and therefore shouldn't be hated on by the e-girl.
I hard agree with the part that some of these dudes say some of the most cringeworthy shit ever, and I also would NEVER say that shit to these girls or anywhere tbh. But, if they are making these comments to girls that do stuff that invites that kind of behavior, I don't think those dudes are in the wrong (even if it's still cringe af). Like I always say; it's like a comedian getting offended at people that are laughing at their jokes, or a cook getting upset over people enjoying their food. Their girl sell themselves on sex and as sexual objects. They market themselves based on their looks, sex appeal, having a hot body, ass and tits. So getting upset that dudes would comment on that is insanely hypocritical and toxic. Look, if it's just some girl on insta that happens to look attractive but doesn't do anything sexual, then it's inappropriate and weird, but when you claim to be a sex worker (something Maimy also once claimed), you should honestly accept it, BUT as long as it doesn't cross into stalker-esk or hostile behavior.
This is the problem with this girlfriend/(extrem) personal ASMR, it just draws the weirdos/freaks in and gives them a feeling of company and the feeling of having a real girlfriend. And just like you already said with this "love you", "care about you" and "you are so special to me" etc bullshit it gives this weirdos a a false hope. I would second that, that a lot of dudes are obsessed with her, because of those reasons.
I don't follow her on OF, but I would love to see those comments tbh.
Sometimes I Watch her recorded past streams and skip the gaming part just to listen to her chatting because I like her accent.. When she start doing live asmr is very Good as well I recommend it a lot... I dont even bother in comenting live because I know is worthless.. Like You are not going to be her friend as much as you tipped her... I hope People understand that so they dont overwhelm her and then she finally decides to dissapear as some other creators.