Thanks but in this case, I want it to seem real but be fake. If that makes sense. I hate to see people get into the lifestyle and it ruin their relationship. Of course, that means the relationship would have failed eventually anyway but usually with less pain involved for the ones left behind. Now if the one left behind is an asshole, that makes it a bit less off putting for me.
That should be the first thing told to any couple wanting to get into swinging, hotwifing/cuckoldry, etc. Do not go into this unless your relationship is rock solid. Either you love each other unconditionally or neither of you are the jealous type and neither are looking for something "real". The last type of couple are more like certain hedonists that really don't get attached to other people on a dependent level.
When I was swinging, me and the two different partners I was with during those years, fell into the latter category. We were more like FWB that liked to couple swap. We also were a bit exhibitionist, liked to have others watching us with each other. It worked great for me and both of the women I was in a FWB relationship with, during those days. The first one did not end because of either catching feelings, the first lass moved across the country, so I started another similar relationship with one of the ladies that I had been a bull for and we mostly just fucked each other, in front of her cuck husband.
Sadly, covid ended my second relationship. It did a number on my heart and now I cannot get too excited. I guess I could still please a lass with my tongue or something but that feels too cuckold to me. I loved to go down on a lass all my life but it was just to give them that first orgasm before we moved on to penetration. So I relive my former "glory" days by hanging out here and playing certain adult games(where I am the bull or harem master) on F95.
I am not shaming someone elses kink, BTW, my brain is just not wired that way. Although, I have gotten into the idea of watersports, since this all happened, which is kind of submissive on my part, as I think I would rather drink from the lass. So who knows, tastes change over time.
