See, you’re already mixing up sex and gender like it’s done most of the Time in these discussions.
But I do think bi/pan etc describes it better because id never call myself gay when I am attracted to both sexes and genders.
I definitely can follow
Misserfolg ‘s train of thought.
If Ashley gets button surgery, will f1nn suddenly be considered fully straight by you?
We could also argue from a completely different, opposite angle: Isn’t it so not-gay when a guy is attracted to the boobs, ass, softer skin, legs, long hair, basically female attributes and appearance of a trans girl?
I admit this topic always fucks with my head because like
Misserfolg said our brains are so used to putting everything into a category and label it.
With F1nn I simply wonder if he got a primary sexual attraction to trans women and actually wants the dick. My point is I just can’t imagine him anymore with some fully heteros cis-girl. (I know dominant heterosexual females and pegging exist).
For me personally trans people are „exotic“ and I don’t mind dicks, and there are even very few men that I find attractive but I definitely tend more towards women In general.