I feel you man, I don't want to be a downer but only so much positivity and optimism can help. At some point the realist has to come out. An that's fucked up that her family is having to have this conversation amongst themselves but those are the plain cold facts. I do hope that things work out for her and her family but that's what it is. I want to be wrong, not even for her to make a comeback like I have seen from people in other communities and sites. I just want the best for people an for them to be able to live their life to the fullest.
PS. Sorry for word vomit