I agree, anytime a strap on is used in a lesbian vid I immediately tune out and end up changing vid. It's kinda hard to explain why as I like b/g vids so what's the difference? Well I think it's knowing that it's not an actual part of their body they're using to please them, but some plastic/rubber, would explain why I'm not crazy into toy use too, I always prefer to see fingers used!
I don't mind strap ons when both women are into it, and even better if they try positions that are a little less common. Other sex toys are a huge turn off for me though, like watching one girl lie down for ten minutes while the other hold a vibrator against her clit, and then they switch positions and do it again. I don't know if other people are into that, but I find it boring af.
I feel the same way too. Actually for me it goes a little bit further. If girls ain't tribbing, I find it the whole video pointless. But for me it is even more than that. I can't watch women masturbating using dildos either. It defeats the purpose in my opinion. The whole point of watch a girl masturbate is to watch her flick her bean with her fingers. Anything else is not considered solo IMO. Wish we had a megathread where girls masturbate with nothing but their hands with the occasional pillow grinding or grinding on other surfaces. Heck, I might start it if there are more people into it.