No, there was no such thing in my comment.
Depends on how you feel about the model.
I have a couple of models who are the reason I joined this site, and I would never want to see their content with a man, even though I realize that she and I probably won't even get a word in edgewise for the rest of our lives.
Psychology is a delicate matter, my friend.
I understand you have an academic description of the word "Cuckold" and its clear criteria, but for me it's simple, if you like to watch someone you like fuck, and judging by the site we're on and the thread we're in, then wanting to watch her get fucked is pure cuckolding to me.
Of course you can bend the line about formalities, that you are not in a relationship with her, but to me the main difference from just watching a video and with the fact that when you watch it you are a bit of a cuckold, is your emotional and psychological attitude to the girl, which is earned by the fact that you like her, her appearance, content, personality and so on.
Of course, this is all strictly IMHO.