Amen, it's way more then that, it's more then a label, gay, lesbian, straight, what does it all mean, they are all labels, I believe it's more then that, I believe the attraction is seeing the "real" person not the label, if you are sexually attractive to someone, is that not a form of love maybe,even if its physical attraction, remove the labels and what you have is genuine, its truthful, its real.
Gay men aren't sexually attracted to breasts and generally feminine features or characteristics. I don't think gay men even like trans women sexually.