My point is the idea of “proof” in this context is a false construct, so you shouldn’t chase it.
You’re already paying for someone to lie to you. They don’t want to chat with you, they don’t want to see your dick and/or rate it, they don’t even want to say your name without $ attached. You don’t have a “connection” with this person, you have a transaction.
So why set these arbitrary thresholds for “authenticity” when none of it is authentic?!?