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<< Darth Krayt >> said:
After reading through this thread, I'm going to add my 2 cents.

Cheating is never okay.

No matter the circumstance, once this point has been reached in any relationship, something fundamentaly whent wrong.
And 98% of the time it all could have been prevented by better communication.

Now, we can only ever speculate about other peoples reasoning ending up at said point.
In her case, what she claimed "i only cheat when you treat me like shit" this to me sounds like something someone wo either suffers of great fear of loss might say or it might be some form of self defense mechanism, one deployed by a person who tends to end up in bad, often abusive relationships.

Or maybe its just some edgy throwaway statement someone who wants to be "the boss" might say.

And I think this duplicity is something worth considering.

Eitherway, she likely might just shows us an online persona here. To some people there's a fundamental disconect between things they do and say online and their IRL person. Granted, hers is a pretty shitty persona with some fairly detestable character traits,

On the other hand, if this is realy her, thinking and saying what she truely means, oh boy, no wonder she always gets the short end of the stick.
She probably is aways hanging around the type of guys who change their "girfriends" more often than their underwear, if you know what I mean.

So, what do you guys and girls make of it?


P.s. Bunny if you read this, I sinserely hope you're not the human pile of garbage you represent yourself as online...



P.p.s. The only time cheating is okay, is when one is playing offline games, for fun! 😉


Edit: It just crossed my mind, the "i only cheat when you treat me like shit" statement might as well be nothing but a bad excuse for her exactly knowing she's mentaly incapable of having a lasting relationship. Maybe ADHS related... 🤔

And yes I'm overthinking shit again. Fuck my life...
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Overthinking is my language my man. I agree and shared the same thoughts as you through and through. I just didn't have the energy to spell it out.

Ok GIF
 
<< Darth Krayt >> said:
Revenge has never been the solution. You can't heal grief by causing more grief.
And remember, you'll always reap what you sow
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that too.
retard12 said:
I don't buy her justification fully also

I understand he is an accused rapist and victimized you

But the argument she made was" if you treat me like shit I'll cheat on you"

If this man wasn't an accused rapist scumbag

Would you cheat on a person you are dating that just gets into arguments alot and neglects the relationship? Because that can be seen as shit treatment yet that's no justification for cheating
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Yup. Never thought the rapist was to be defended or "didn't deserve it" or etc. Any rapist is without a doubt, human garbage that deserves to go to prison. Sadly rape culture is very real. Not pointing fingers at anyone here btw.

The focus was never there for me, but purely on what has been mentioned by me before and the few posts above.
 
bunni3jpg said:
i did admit to not cheating on someone who didn't deserve it, it got deleted :(
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yeah I noticed that, that a good handful of comment got deleted at some point. But your statement confuses me a bit. :monkaHmm:

You're saying that you made a post saying that you didn't cheat on someone that didn't deserve it? I mean...I don't see the merit in that since it the very normal and a logical thing to do. To not cheat on someone that doesn't deserve it. But then again, we just circle back to the base principle that cheating is never the answer and right thing to do. So it's not a question of who deserves it or not in the end anyway.

Or did you mean that you admitted to cheating on someone that didn't deserve it? Or did you admit to not cheating on someone that you thought deserved it? Just wanna make sure here, not even trying to be funny or etc. I just think there is enough miscommunication as it is.
 
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retard12 said:
I don't think anyone here knows this chick personally, and nobody her relationship.

If he is a rapist that ong I hope he gets sent to prison. Abusers have no place in society obv.

But nobody knows bunni or the exact situation she's in.

Which makes me thing what if she's one of those girls that lie to get there way, what if she is fabricating this entirely.

Nobody knows for certain but this "cheating" emotional manipulation thing she admitted to even though she justified it with revenge.

How can we possibly know if she has malicious intent and she is lying to us.

I believe she's not playing this very well as she can't understand our perspective because we literally would never know if it's lie or not.

I hope she is okay
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Damn the posts loaded all weird on me. Didn't see that before my other posts. But exactly we weren't there, we don't know them or the details of their relationship so we can't assume anything on what happened. We can only give our opinion on hypothetical scenarios as broad statements like "well, if X did actually happen then I think Y. But if A actually happened then I think B" and etc.
 
bunni3jpg said:
i admitted to not cheating on someone without a justifiable reason (like rape)
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Thanks for making your statement clear so that there is no confusion on what you said. As for the rest, most of us already said our opinion. I mean, I already did, no point in stretching this subject forever. Because for me it's more about the subject in general at this point than what you yourself did Bunni. Since as I said before we can't and will never know exactly what happened so there is no point on making judgement calls right now. Just share our view on these kinds of subject/scenarios I think. And everyone can take what they want from it or not at the end of the day. :peepoShrug:
 
bunni3jpg said:
i completely understand if you dont see it as a justifiable thing but considering the whole rape thing plus him flirting with other people in front of me, not including him over all just laughing at me when id cry because he'd find it funny when he hurt me. soon enough my "what if i hurt his feelings :(" ran out
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I do get where you're coming from and what led you to think that way. It certainly a horrible situation to be in and not an easy one to navigate, even less so in in a perfectly morally correct manner. What I mean is, it certainly explains why you would come to that conclusion. Now, if it's the right way to think and/or justified, that is another thing, which I think most of us already shared our opinion on on a broad scale. But it ain't up to us to tell you how to live and vice versa. Take what you want from it or don't. We shared our thoughts and that's that. No point in doing a witch hunt or being negative. I appreciate you taking the time to make an account and come down here and try to communicate with us even though there is clearly a lot of negative views on you.

Me in the end I just hope that there is something in this that you (and perhaps others) will learn from all of those shared thoughts and that in the future it'll help out whether it is in a small way or big way. Essentially, for this to be constructive in some shape or form.
 
bunni3jpg said:
my pleasure! the only issue with this thread was that no one was listening and the arguing so i apologize for an confusion on my part. Genuinely if i wanted to (and needed to) i have multiple people that could back me up with what I've said. Also i would semi appreciate if this thread was taken down at some point, its a little overwhelming
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Yeah I can certainly imagine how having a thread about you and a controversial subject regarding personal events in the most popular leaking forums being discussed between strangers online...could be certainly very overwhelming. And not really necessary at the end of the day haha. You could always click on report when you feel the conversation has no use anymore and explain to the mods why you would like it to be taken down. It's there for that after all. :)
 
I have no idea what's going on here but I'll add my opinion because I'm bored:
If she's being abused and scared to approach leaving a relationship due to retaliation of violence, triggering one of the things that would make him end it makes sense to me.
Cheating is bad (hot take), but what's worse is, y'know, getting raped.

Sounds like she's in a pretty shitty scenario and found a safe way out. But then people with bad personal experiences see the word cheating and get pissed. I don't think she needs to justify whatever she's doing for her own safety on Twitter to a porn forum but it's an emotional topic so eh. Close the tab and be happy you're away from your abuser, live your life.
 
lyfary said:
I have no idea what's going on here but I'll add my opinion because I'm bored:
If she's being abused and scared to approach leaving a relationship due to retaliation of violence, triggering one of the things that would make him end it makes sense to me.
Cheating is bad (hot take), but what's worse is, y'know, getting raped.

Sounds like she's in a pretty shitty scenario and found a safe way out. But then people with bad personal experiences see the word cheating and get pissed. I don't think she needs to justify whatever she's doing for her own safety on Twitter to a porn forum but it's an emotional topic so eh. Close the tab and be happy you're away from your abuser, live your life.
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No one is trying to say getting raped is less worse than cheating. Obviously getting raped is just beyond horrific. But it's not the point I think.

Essentially I think it doesn't come down to who did the worse things and/or if someone does something really bad it allows you to do something not as bad. But I'm purely speaking in terms of moral guidelines and ideals. But of course, we are humans, we make mistakes, we have all our different ways to cope and I never thought she was an horrible person for what she may or may have not done base only on something she said. At worst, she has an unhealthy coping mechanism and was in a toxic relationship. And let's be honest, it's pretty fucking rare for someone to not live that at all at least once or twice in their lives (toxic relationship). In fact, a metric ton of people think they aren't in a toxic relationship while they totally are, but just don't realize it. Sometimes it's extremely subtle, and sometimes it's really not.

In the end, I think this conversation shouldn't be about her character or what she may or may not have done. We don't and can't know shit. We can only give our personal opinions on hypothetical scenarios and maybe all learn something from it constructively. Anyway, that's the ideal outcome of this in my opinion.

And no she doesn't need to justify herself to us one bit that is very true. We're just horny strangers on the internet. With nothing better to do than, this, I guess lmao. So yeah, please let her person be. Discuss the subject at will, but no need to drag her name in the mud.
 
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lyfary said:
I have no idea what's going on here but I'll add my opinion because I'm bored:
If she's being abused and scared to approach leaving a relationship due to retaliation of violence, triggering one of the things that would make him end it makes sense to me.
Cheating is bad (hot take), but what's worse is, y'know, getting raped.

Sounds like she's in a pretty shitty scenario and found a safe way out. But then people with bad personal experiences see the word cheating and get pissed. I don't think she needs to justify whatever she's doing for her own safety on Twitter to a porn forum but it's an emotional topic so eh. Close the tab and be happy you're away from your abuser, live your life.
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Couldn’t have said it better. Especially since like others have said, we have no clue what her personal life and relationships are like. That being said, emotional cheating is not the call for this since the abuser like I said before could be one of those type of assholes who get all ass mad at the prospect of being cheated on while being abusive. Still she got away from the person and I assume is in a better and healthier relationship. Now one thing that should be said and understood is that this whole shit fest was just that, a shit fest.
 
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