If they have a personal site they usually post what they are looking for , boundaries etiquette and how they would like to be paid. If it’s incall bring the donation in an envelope. If it’s outcall before the provider arrives leave it in the bathroom and let them know you left their donation in the bathroom when they go freshen up really quick.
I mean if you aren’t already fit and your cardio isn’t on point and you want it to be I’d get started now and schedule that meet up a month away lol
But if you are scheduling it this week don’t worry about your cardio. These girls are pros and you can tell them how you want them to please you and what’s YOUR fantasy. If you’re looking to actually make these pros cream and squirt for you ask them what they like and what gets them to 💦
From my experience I’m pretty good at eating 😻 they don’t need to tell me either, their squirting/cumming in my face pretty much tells me that lol but don’t get bummed if you can’t. These girls have been there done that soo don’t overthink it. Enjoy yourself
As for gifts I usually ask if they would like me to get a bottle of their favorite drink or bring them flowers if they don’t drink.
I wouldn’t jerk it before hand cuz if you wanna see your heavy load on their face or ass. Don’t cut yourself down like that. If you are prone to climaxing too fast tell her to go slow you asked for her service. Usually if I come across a throat goat I slow her down from making me cum too fast I slide her off and start eating her out then pull her down to get back to throating me again or get into the doggy position.
If you’re concerned about manscaping if you’ve been in contact with those provider for a bit ask what they prefer in a John. But make sure to shower and not smell of BO especially down there bro. Most of the time they will have you shower there but just in case they just get right into it just do it so they can’t say they will be using a condom for the BJ.
Hope this helps. I’ve met just a few providers I’m still learning. Just in my opinion if you paid for over an hour. They usually say MSOG so I like to go multiple times on them in multiple location 😅😉 I’m paying for my climaxes to be obtained not theirs 😊 good luck bro