It is goalpost moving, your original argument was she doesnt have time then changed to just doesnt want to (which again surprises nobody). Im also literally not annoyed at barbara in the slightest, im annoyed by the logic in here sometimes ie:
"man shes got a wedding and shes job searching shes way too busy to shoot a set, its the last thing on her mind" (I was on board with this crowd) but then:
"SHOOTS 3 SETS, but doesnt upload them?"
"man thats because shes job hunting and has a wedding coming up, its the last thing on her mind" (this is stupid).
I mean do you even know long it takes to not only set up 3 separate cosplays but shoot 3 different photoshoots for them, and we're comparing this to just uploading said photos to the internet? Like ffs just keep it simple and say she just doesnt want to which we're all already aware of and used to, no need to insert some condescending mess about how 2 minutes of her time is an absolute non-negotiable.