Damn, those are A LOT of screenshots. Froot brought the receipts.
Hopefully this will stop the schizos and the antis. But TL;DR her ex-husband is not really the clean military guy people used to say. He's manipulative, dismissive, sexually abusive, homophobic (except when trying to get her to bed with another woman) and a cheater. He also alienated her with no real income from her family and friends, and apparently refused to let her work. He had a second estate for him and the mistress. Their bank account was joint, and he would take her streamming money. Fucked her relationship with her mom by pretending to be her (using her phone!) to isolate her further. Stalked her and got her expelled from a shared apartment after she left.
... Imma be real with all y'all. If she actually cheated, it's justified. This man is an A-class sonufabitch.