Something's off. She said she won't be able to go to the funeral because she's traveling. I find that odd since it's highly unlikely she's traveling out the country. She lives in the same state, within driving distance to where her grandparents are. What pressing engagement could she possibly have that is impossible to cancel in order to be able to attend her grandpa's funeral?
The only future events that she has mentioned so far where she could be traveling to are the Streamer Awards, AVN Awards and XBIZ Awards. It didn't sound like she'd be hosting any of those, only that she's nominated for categories. Could there maybe be a horse show she just has to be in? A doctor's appointment perhaps?
Is showing up for an awards ceremony where you don't even know you'll win that more important than being with family at grandpa's funeral?
I can understand if she didn't have a good relationship with him, not everyone gets along with family but to say the reason is because you'll be traveling (within the country) just doesn't make sense to me. I'm wondering if she wasn't really close with grandpa, or having to be around her own family would be too uncomfortable, or something else preventing her from attending