Wow, there are exceptions?! Never would have thought! Anyway, be honest: as a man, would you rather click the video which has a thumbnail photo of an attractive big titty girl or the one that's a flat girl with no cleavage? I'd be more likely to click the one that has bigger tits and I'm almost certain that most young men have the same way of thinking. Young men are horny, we're hardwired that way. It's male hormones at work and we can do nothing about it. And obviously women are going to take advantage of that.
I kind of agree with the 2nd part of your message. I know of kinks like that. I've seen some humiliation JOI videos where women are calling you a loser, a nobody and so on.